There are many different types of pain. Really, the things that can cause pain to the human body and mind are endless.
But be warned: Don’t give your heart away. My heart is my own and belongs to no one but me. Because there’s nothing like the pain of a broken heart. Believing it’s your fault. That there’s something wrong with you. Believing you aren’t good enough. Not worthy of love.
I see this beautiful woman singing, with so much pain on her face and in her voice. I think almost everyone knows that kind of pain. I hate seeing people in pain, but this is a beautiful song and video.
However, begging a man to stay in your bed only hurts you, and it gives the man an awful lot of power over you. I admit, I’ve done it. I begged a man not to leave me. Thing is, he was never really with me, so of course my efforts failed, making me feel a lot worse than if I had just walked away.
Most pain has a purpose. Ignore it at your own peril. And learn how to walk away from anything or anyone that causes you pain.
All Things Chronic 
Sound advice, Johnna
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Just trying to survive, Sir Derrick. 🙂
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I agree, heartbreak can be one of the most painful things. I’ll never let a man do that to me again. I’d rather spend my time sharing a cheesecake and conversation with you, than give my time to a man
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Makes you wonder how different physical and mental pain really are. Pain is pain. But dude, as long as you protect your heart, you don’t have to swear off men. Men are fun. Sex is fun. Just protect yourself, that’s all.
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You’re right. I feel stronger and no longer vulnerable at the thought of men. Though I’m not in any rush to mingle just yet. And hey, if want sex, I’ll surely I just need to ask…. after all, I’ve never met a man who said ‘no darling I have a headache’
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There was this one dude who told me that he had a problem with gas… 🙂
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Sound like he’s full of shit to me
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Yeah, he was. 🙂
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On the other hand, the other-other woman also is getting the shaft. I think these two might need to do a Thelma and Louise on that sonofabitch.
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Do you think every woman in this world has been cheated on at least once in her life? I wonder if it’s the same for men.
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After my last disasterous relationship ended, I swore I would never need anyone again and stuck by it. I’m currently in an amazing relationship and if it ends I will be sad and heartbroken, however I will not ruin my life to save it. I choose to be in this relationship because I love him, but I do not need the relationship to survive. It is not all that I am.
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I like your attitude. 🙂
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Easier said than done 🙂
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Good thing you’re up to the challenge. 🙂
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